Common Questions

What is somatic sexology?

Somatic sexology is an embodied approach to exploring intimacy, pleasure, desire, and connection. It brings awareness to what is happening in the body in the present moment, rather than staying only in thoughts or stories. Through gentle practices of breath, sound, movement, and sometimes touch, we create space to feel more alive, connected, and at home in your body.

What is sexological bodywork?

Sexological bodywork is a hands-on somatic practice that supports learning about your body, pleasure, and boundaries through mindful touch and education. It can include breathwork, sound, movement, and conscious touch (internal or external). Many people choose never to include touch.

What do you mean by embodied counselling and sex coaching?

Embodied counselling and sex coaching bring the same present-moment awareness into talking and reflection. Instead of only discussing your experiences, we slow down to notice what is actually arising in your body, emotions, and thoughts right now. This helps integrate insights more deeply and gently explore patterns around intimacy, pleasure, shame, or desire.

Do I have to include touch?

No. Touch is never required. Many people work effectively with just breath, sound, movement, and conversation. You are always welcome to explore only the elements that feel right for you in each session. There is no expectation or pressure to include touch at any point.

What if something feels edgy or uncomfortable?

That’s completely normal. The work often involves gently approaching your resilient edge — the boundary between what is known and what is new. You are invited to move at your own pace, dipping a toe in rather than diving deep. You can pause, slow down, or stop anything at any moment. My role is to support you in exploring safely, without overwhelm.

How do you work with consent?

Consent is ongoing and can be changed or withdrawn at any time. We check in regularly, and a simple “no”, “stop”, or shift in your body language will always be respected immediately. You remain in charge throughout the session.

What’s the difference between online and in-person sessions?

Online sessions focus on breath, sound, movement, guided practices, and conversation. In-person sessions can include all of the above, plus the possibility of conscious touch if that feels right for you. Both formats are held with the same care, safety, and attention to your boundaries.

Inclusion & Accessibility

I am trans and poly friendly and welcome people across the entire spectrum of sex, gender, sexuality, and relationship styles. I strive to create a space where all identities and ways of relating feel respected and safe. All are welcome here.

Please note that my space is not wheelchair accessible and I do not have facilities or training to provide physical assistance. If you have disabilities that require support with mobility or personal care, your caretaker must accompany you to the session.

How long are sessions and how much do they cost?

Sessions typically last 60 to 120 minutes. The rate is $150 AUD per hour. We can discuss the best session length for your needs when we meet.

Is this work suitable for me?

This work is for anyone who wants to develop a more connected, curious, and pleasurable relationship with their body and erotic life — whether you feel completely new to this, or you’ve already done some exploration. People come with a wide range of backgrounds, ages, genders, and experiences.